Your Birth Partner Needs a Plan Too: How to Prepare Them for Labour
Your birth partner does not need to become a birth expert, but they do need some preparation. Here’s how to help them feel more confident, grounded, and ready to support you through labour.
Your Partner Doesn't Need to Be a Birth Expert — But They Do Need to Be Prepared
Your partner does not need to be a birth expert, but they do need to understand how to support you. Here’s why preparation matters before labour begins.
Supportive Support: What New Mothers Actually Need After Birth
Not all postpartum help feels helpful. Here’s what supportive support actually looks like for new mothers, and how family and friends can show up without adding more to her plate.
The Mother Needs Mothering Too: Grandparent Support and Postpartum Mental Health
Postpartum was never meant to be carried alone. A 2023 review found that grandparent support was linked with better maternal mental health in the first year after birth, with support from the mother’s own mother showing the strongest association. But the quality of that support matters too. New mothers need to feel held, respected, and cared for — not criticized or overwhelmed.
Postpartum Lymphatic Drainage for Swollen Legs, Feet & Recovery After Birth
After birth, most of the care and attention shifts to the baby. Which means your body — the one that just did something enormous — often gets left to figure things out on its own. If you're newly postpartum and your legs and feet are swollen, heavy, and sore, here's what's actually happening and how gentle lymphatic drainage can help.
Co-Sleeping, Breastfeeding, and Why Babies Wake So Often at Night
Co-sleeping is one of the most misunderstood topics in motherhood. In this post, we explore the evidence behind safe co-sleeping, breastfeeding, infant sleep biology, and why frequent waking is normal, protective, and deeply connected to how human babies were designed to thrive.
Pregnant After Miscarriage: Why Every Symptom Feels So Scary
Being pregnant after miscarriage can feel like constantly moving between hope and fear. Every symptom feels loaded, every appointment feels heavy, and even joy can feel guarded. This post is for the woman trying to move through pregnancy after loss one day at a time.
Do Doulas Influence Birth Decisions? A Nuanced Conversation About Informed Choice
Doulas do influence birth. The way we speak, what we emphasize, and what we leave out all shape how women understand their options. This post explores the responsibility birth workers have to support autonomy with honesty, nuance, and the full picture — whether someone is choosing hospital birth, home birth, birth centre birth, or freebirth.
Why Getting Pregnant Feels Harder Than It Should (And What Most Women Aren’t Taught About Fertility)
More women are struggling to get pregnant than ever before — and most don’t fully understand their cycles. Here’s what you need to know about ovulation, timing, and the hidden factors affecting fertility today.
Pregnancy After Miscarriage: Why It’s So Hard to Feel Fully Happy
Pregnancy after miscarriage can feel filled with both hope and fear. A gentle look at anxiety, uncertainty, and navigating pregnancy after loss.
“My Provider Says My Baby Is Too Big and I Need to Be Induced… But I Don’t Want To”
Being told your baby might be “too big” can shift everything. This post breaks down what that actually means, how accurate those estimates are, and what your options look like if you’re not sure induction is the right path for you.
“Why Is Breastfeeding So Hard?”
Most first-time moms are surprised by how hard breastfeeding actually is. In a culture where many women have never seen it up close, it can feel unfamiliar, overwhelming, and deeply personal when it doesn’t come easily.
“Is It Too Late to Hire a Doula?”
Is it too late to hire a doula? It’s a question many women ask later in pregnancy. This post explores when support matters most, why connection with your doula is important, and how it’s never too late to feel more supported going into birth.
What Happens in the First 24 Hours After Birth?
The first 24 hours after birth can feel like a blur. You’re meeting your baby, recovering physically, and navigating emotions that shift quickly. This post walks through what’s normal in those early hours — including why the second night often feels harder than the first.
“How Do I Know If I Need a Doula?”
Most women don’t start pregnancy thinking they need a doula. The question usually comes later — after reading, researching, and realizing birth might not be as simple as expected. This post walks through when having a doula can make a difference… and how to decide what kind of support feels right for you.
“What Does a Doula Actually Do? (And Is It Worth It?)”
A doula isn’t there to replace your provider. She’s there for you. This post breaks down what doulas actually do during pregnancy, labour, and postpartum — and why that steady, uninterrupted support matters more than most people realize.
Home Birth, Birth Centre, or Hospital: How to Choose the Right Environment for You
Where you give birth shapes how you feel, and how you feel shapes your labour. This guide explores the differences between home birth, birth centres, and hospital birth so you can choose the environment where your body feels most safe.
Why Having a Doula Matters: What the Evidence and Real Life Show
Continuous support during labor changes outcomes. Research shows that having a doula reduces cesarean and instrumental birth rates while improving maternal satisfaction. Here’s why that steady presence matters — in birth and long after.
Why Slowing Down in Motherhood Is a Radical Choice (and Why I’m Choosing It)
Slowing down in motherhood isn’t passive or accidental. It’s a choice. One that goes against a culture obsessed with speed, productivity, and getting back to normal. This piece explores why choosing a slower pace feels radical and why I’m choosing it anyway.
The First Two Weeks Postpartum: What Actually Helps (And What Doesn’t)
The first two weeks postpartum aren’t about getting things right. They’re about being held while everything changes. Here’s what truly helps during early postpartum — and what doesn’t — so mothers can plan for real support without guilt.